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Wednesday, 3 December 2008
too quiet?

i was just thinking, are those quiet people really quiet cause they got nothing to say?

I came to the conclusion that this is not true.

I finally understood how those 'seen as quiet' people felt. and hello. if you think i'm quiet and not expressing my thoughts, you're wrong. it's just.... i don't know how to phrase it.

what's the use of our voice and mouth? it's for us to talk and express ourselves.

the point is whether you're given a chance to talk anot. whether people give you the opportunity to talk instead of them just going on and on and expressing their own ideas and forgot about your existence.

i remembered, i have a 'quiet' friend, well, everyone felt that he's super quiet and introvert. even his best friend felt so. everyone felt that he should talk more. but the fact is, no one gives him the chance to express himself and talk. maybe that is also one of the good 'problem' when you have friends who talks alot and are very expressive. happened that one night i was talking to him, and he actually got ALOT of share. he was talking non-stop and i'm quite surprised by that.

sometimes, it's just good to listen to others and give people chance to speak their mind.

i'm glad i manage to find this balance. :)

smiled at 6:27:00 pm